After some quality time plowing through the manual, here is a list of items that can be enabled/disabled by the dealer:

Passive arming
Daytime running lamps
Speed-Dependent Mode
Drip Wipe
Auto Mirror Fold

There are lots more you can set yourself through the car menus (like changing the locks from single to multi-point entry), but you might want to have these the way you want them as you take delivery.

 

I didn't have to have the dealer enable most of these. I have the first edition - and the drip wipe works on its own and the auto mirror fold does as well. For the mirrors I just pressed both the left and right buttons at the same time once I turned my car off, and then after that, it automatically does it when the car is shut off. My DRL's are always on as well. As far as passive arming, I don't want that enabled. For now, I just place my finger on the door handle and the car locks.

 

Peggy Sue ,
Just so you know this coming Sunday I will be your vehicle mirror image in the Northwest. I enjoyed seeing your pictures so much I wanted my own and I just sent you a friend request. At some point I would like to talk with you to compare notes. You're posts have already been helpful, such as getting the seats treated to prevent stains.
Bryan

 

Yeah! This is awesome! Can't wait to compare notes. I'm quite frustrated with the leather - it still seems to soak in dark dye from clothing. I'm not sure what to do except start wearing more white . Can't wait to see your car. You're going to love it.