Ok so I noticed every time I start the car the rear defrosterALWAYS comes on. It's annoying to me. Is there a way to turn it off or bypass this?
Next thing is my driver seat. I have set this thing over and over and over again but every time I start the car the seat, steering wheel, & mirrors change. If I lug lock the car the seats moves. I literally have to press 1 on my memory seat every single time I get in the car to drive. I even had key in hand and set the seat like suggested by other members. Nothing seems to work unless I'm just missing something here

 

Your key fob will change the settings. To program your settings to the key, get everything where you want and press the memory button. While the memory LED is lit, press the lock or unlock button on the key fob. The rear defroster will automatically come on if the ambient temperature is at or below a certain level (I think 38 degrees). You might be able to get it to stay off if you hold the button down for a few seconds till it beeps twice, but probably not.

 

Still didn't work! This is so annoying... I set and set and set this 20 times a day and it still seems to do whatever it wants

 

You can try clearing the memory in the key fob first by pressing the memory button, then pressing any button on the key fob except the panic button, then pressing the memory button again (all while the memory LED is on, about 5 seconds). Make sure the key isn't in the ignition for either settings procedure.