The car has been fuelled via a can causing, misfuel to engange, i tried using yellow tool cant get it to reset, any help please frustraed new jag xj owner lol

 

Have you owners manual? There are an instructions and picture how the yellow misfuel reset tools work.
Its simple, just how to position and what direction to move it.
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