So after changing my valve body and connector plug Im getting a leak from the plug but it only happened after being driven for a few hundred miles after I made sure the plug was lined up and clicked also the 7mm bolt inside the connector was snug any ideas?

 

Could be dirt between connector sleeve and tranny body or connector sleeve and electric plug.
To clarify: Electric plug goes inside connector sleeve (which is fastened w/7mm bolt) which goes inside tranny body.