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It's in the front fuse/ relay box under the hood/ bonnet. The larger of the two boxes. It's called the "DIP" replay: its #5. Have someone flick on the high beam and you should hear; or you can feel the relay clicking if you put your finger on it. You can try swapping one from another position to see if that fixes the problem....